Should I cancel tomorrow's coffee date? Brett bores the heck outta me digitally, I'm not even remotely excited to meet him tomorrow. I can't stop thinking I should cancel. Please comment. Why bother, right?
Go on the date. People are soooo different online than in person. Give it a shot. Becuase seriously, what if 10 years from now you're all, "can you believe I thought you were so boring online I almost didn't go out with you? And now we're married with 6 kids and we're multi-millionaries and we're sooooo in love and happy and my life is sooooo amazing".
Plus, although Josh is exciting and you've got digital and phone chemistry, it might fizzle in person. He might be TOO into you and TOO needy, or maybe you won't be in love with his kids. (Not trying to be a downer, just thinkin'.)
I wouldn't close any doors until you've at least met in person. Again, like Jess said, it's just coffee after all...
Go on the date. People are soooo different online than in person. Give it a shot. Becuase seriously, what if 10 years from now you're all, "can you believe I thought you were so boring online I almost didn't go out with you? And now we're married with 6 kids and we're multi-millionaries and we're sooooo in love and happy and my life is sooooo amazing".
ReplyDeleteIt's just coffee, after all....
I agree with Jess.... You never know.
ReplyDeletePlus, although Josh is exciting and you've got digital and phone chemistry, it might fizzle in person. He might be TOO into you and TOO needy, or maybe you won't be in love with his kids. (Not trying to be a downer, just thinkin'.)
I wouldn't close any doors until you've at least met in person. Again, like Jess said, it's just coffee after all...
I say go for it. It for no other reason then it's practice right? And the whole 'you never know' scenario.
ReplyDeleteI mean it's a coffee, nice quick and simple, you're not roped into an entire dinner or movie thing where you need to spend hours with him.
Yeah, I was going to say practice too.
ReplyDeleteWhy not...and if you're lucky, he'll foot the bill for your over priced grande no whip frappalattecappu-whatever!
And, it'll give you something to post about. Annnd, if it stinks you can tell us all, "I told ya so!"
You should go! Besides, he's got a great name.
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